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Wan Ubaidah...said marrying single mothers could help assemblymen meet their 'quotas'

Wan Ubaidah...said marrying single mothers could help assemblymen meet their 'quotas'



Kelantan state executive councillor Wan Ubaidah Omar has proposed special awards for male elected representatives in the state who marry single mothers as a solution to their rising numbers.

However, she did not specify the kind of awards that they rightly deserve.

Wan Ubaidah said marrying single mothers, especially those who had young chidren to care for was another means of them meeting their "quota" of four wives under Islamic law.

Backbenchers who were amused by her remarks during the Kelantan assembly sitting Wednesday thumped their palms on the table in expressing support.

Wan Ubaidah, who heads the State Women Family and Health Committee had earlier been asked by Tawang assemblyman Hassan Mahmood about what was being done to reduce the number of divorce cases and help single mothers.

She told the assembly that there were currently 16,500 registered single mothers below 60 in the state.

Wan Ubaidah lamented that many of them faced hardships as they could not register with the Welfare Department or other agencies for aid because their husbands had left them without filing any divorce papers.

She said such irresponsible husbands should be whipped as a punishment, as suggested by Kelantan Mentri Besar Datuk Nik Abdul Nik Mat.

Published Oct 28 2009

Comments (10)

  • Anonymous
    I strongly agreed to this idea.Men done it, why not solve it? Its a positive way 4 men to fulfill their desires to marry 4x, at the same time blessed by allah.Award? Well,give them land or easy purchased of house.....
  • sengngiap
    if they cant register with Welfare Department because their husband left without filing any divorce paper, then how the man suppose to remarry the woman again??? is it legal for a woman to have 2 legal husbands?
  • knzshirox
    This will be a valid reason for male to get another wife and mess up their family. To solve single mum problem this is not a through solution!
  • saz
    good suggestion. thumbs up! that is the true spirit in taking more than one wife. this still stop peverts from eyeing on single, beautiful ladies. this will teach them that polygamy is not about sex, its about saving single moms and their children.
  • Asdf
    Appreciate the suggestion as an attempt to resolve the issue. But it is clearly not a well-thought solution. It is not just merely marrying the single mums, children are also involve here. It is not just to merely fulfill the men's desire. What about other factors such as affordability, balance / equal treatment to all the wives and stepchildren.. From the look of it, its prone to create more problems.
  • susan
    Another typical male chauvinistic pig suggestion. A mother is single just plainly bcos she feels thr's no need for a man in her life!!! So wat makes u think she wants to be a man's "second" "third" or even "fourth" wife?!?!?! A woman is single because she chooses to be; and she does not have to be paired up unnecessarily!!
  • worry citizen
    does this representative knew what she doing??????? just wash of time and the rakyat money.
  • sheraann
    why not try to curb divorce and reduce the rate?
  • dave-kl
    all the guys would go for it if it gets approved! who wouldn't?? get a new wife and be rewarded for it! my opinion..really an unbelievable proposal from an elected councilor who is supposed to be smarter or is she?
  • MK
    if you reward the man who marry those single ladies... it doesnt makes a difference of making them feel like a prostitute. its such a bad idea.
    how else would the woman face the society.. where is her self-dignity and honour.. you should love a woman sincerely and not reward the man just because he is willing to marry the single mother.
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